Who Can U Trust These Days???

It was brought to my attention yesterday as i was visiting a to remain nameless person that ppl these days have no trust. And quite rightly so...
As we chatted away about how many ppl we knew of cheating in the past, say month, we started to realise that the concept of relationships and 'marriage' are meaning less and less these days. The concept of being faithful and till death do u part are just part of a tradition and hold as much credibility today as Santa Claus.

So why is these days that we cannot and quite obviously do not keep it in our pants?? Even celebrities are not safe from this trend....Britney cheated on Justin, Mik Cage and Lisa Marie divorced after what 9 months? God knows how many marriages Drew Barrymore has had, and Demi Moore marrying a guy that her daughter would have up on her wall...wtf??

Ppl i find are getting married or settled down too fast these days, it was alright say 50-100 yrs ago because thats what life was based around, especially for women. Their job was to find a suitable husband after they left highschool, university wasnt really an option and a career woman wasnt even heard of... not today....

There is so much more to consider, women have lives now and can quite easily live without a husband, life is becoming more stressful and alot harder to work around ur own schedule let alone considering someone elses. Having a large family is becoming too expensive and too time consuming for most ppl not to mention detrimental to their career so alot are choosing to not have kids or to have them quite late.

So with all these stresses u would think the idea of a serious relationship or even marriage would not be appealing to the masses....but it still is...and it keeps failing....why do we keep falling in the trap??? Divorce rates in Australia were at 55,300 in 2000, the highest in 20 yrs...

Why? Because we still have this romanticism in us....not helped by the movies u see that show picture perfect endings. We still have that belief in us that we will find that one, and that we would do anything for them, and would spend the rest of our lives happily with them... unfortunately 6 months into it u start to realise that this big hulk u wake up to every morning isnt the guy u met at that bar. This is wen cheating comes into it.

No one wants to be lonely, even today, so the need to be in something substantial is obvious, but wen we start to realise the person we are with is not our knight in shining armour we dont opt for getting out....we just simply look for a second opinion...so to speak.

And why not?? Stay in a relationship so there is someone there wen u need them, and for looks sake but at the same time have ur fun with a third party? Sounds perfect...not. We as a society have become quiet self centered despite our efforts to reassure ourselves we're not, and so we are considering others feelings less and less... We dont think about the consequences because we simply believe that we wont get caught...and besides....isnt forbidden sex so much better???

Our quest to find our Romeo or Juliet is getting us in some deep shite and is making ppl foolishly think they are in love enough to get married...wen in reality the only love they have is wrapped in a little latex glove...