To Butt, or not to Butt!

Has the millennium brought on a new sexual catwalk? Has the term any hole's a goal become all too familiar? It seems that now that the standard bedroom antics have become some what like the teletubbies. Good for the beginner but when u've grown up South Park is the way to entertain!
Anal. Not only does the word not sound inviting, it seems to also put the fear of life into most women faced with it. Ok I generalise. There are women out there who love it, some even demand it and will not have it any other way.
At what stage did men suddenly cross that fine homo/hetro line and decide the 'anal with a woman' fantasy is up there with the strict school teacher and naughty school girl?
I am a proud member of the virgin butt club, and continue to be for many years, but I was faced with the question in a quite compromising position the other night. He was persistent but why could I not push that barrier? Have I hit my sexual exploration limit and now can be thrown out with the leftovers? Will women like me no longer be desired as a new wave of females embrace this reverse penetration?
The idea of having a man sticking his (in this case) quite oversized member into something that wont even handle constipation is somewhat out of the question here. Understandably it is enjoyable for the homosexual community as this is where their O spot exists, but I still fail to see where women get the enjoyment out of this position. Is it not just another tactic to satisfy the man we're with? If your man asked you to head into the toilet straight after him and handle some of his remains, would u do it?
It further more proves that this is still a mans world, where sexual limits are null and void in a mans brain, but somewhat reserved in a woman's. We are still being dominated to the point where they can literally shove it up our arses!