Wax on.....Wax off
What is with the female phenomena of 'hair removal'?
It seems in our quest to be more desireable to the opposite sex we have pushed the pain barriers to remove all unsightly body hair that would on the off chance put them off. But then to screw with our heads more, you get the men that prefer hair, either groomed or full naturale!
Is it really a necessity men??? Do we ask that u remove all hair from ur balls and ass crack???
There are the wave of 'metro sexual' men out there that do this by choice anyway, but you wont hear too many women complaining about how much hair their man has.
So we obsess about that little patch of hair like oh shit, he wont touch me if he sees that. But as we know men as a creature....if sex is on the menu its gonna take alot of hairs in their food to put them off!
I cant complain in this area, i am a self confessed hair removal addict. Not so much myself, i keep myself well groomed thank you, but i am now the waxer of most of my close friends, and even have gone so far as to be the sole care taker of DeliHunni's boy's (JetPilot) eyebrows.
But honestly, how important is it to them?
From all sources queried, it holds little importance at all....their mainly attracted to you as a whole and a little hair ain't going to deter them. They see it more as, it isnt their body so they have no right to say what you do with it.
A little prickle on the legs = added sensation, a single X wax instead of a double = extra padding, arm fuzz = to keep warm.
The only time that i believe they would do anything is when the perm can start to be plaited ladies! In that case i think even ourselves would want to check into the nearest beauty salon!
So should our hair removal be for them? Or is it now just a case of feeling more comfortable and feminine hairless? If its a case of this, then ladies relax, when you see a little hair let it go a few weeks before frantically trying to cease its existance....its only doing what its born to do!
Your not going to be any less attractive to yourself or anyone else if you have a little sandpaper growing on ur legs....
Now the mission is to get myself to believe what i just wrote and overcome my obsession.... But i think mine is more with the act, its theraputic to rid of something unwanted more than the fact i have a problem with hair on ppl....
10 Comments:
I must agree with MIC on this issue. Coming from a blokes perspective, i personally preffer less hair, however, i feel it is completley up to the individual. my most recent ex asked me when we first started going out, how i would like her to be 'groomed'. i told her it was her choice, but she kept on asking as if it were my choice. ladies its your body do what you want with it, if a guy likes you he will like you for the whole of you not just how you look.
11:29 PM
Thanks to MIC, I am now her first waxing client in the XXX side of waxing. I am a close and personal friend of MIC's and i think this helped in getting me through my first xxx wax.Some people think that they'd rather get it done by someone who they would probably never see again, but i liked knowing the person doing it. It made me feel comfortable and relaxed. I also have to say thanks to MIC, i am now getting a little obsessed with hair removal. Admittedly not to MIC's extent, but i'm well on my way.
To all you men out there, yes girls do do this sort of stuff when they are alone together, it is not just something that you have cooked up in your minds.
10:36 PM
Yeh baby i love the landing strip. The brazillian is tops too cos it's easy access. you know what im shinging???
like mad access to the booty...booty like beyonce
Maybe jay z is like "hey beyonce, let's land a mad plane on that air strip and ram it all the way to the hanger".."ma wigga"....
BTW ass crack is one area where jenna jameson enjoys. i've seen it. madd drill that.
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4:41 AM
im maggoted!!!
4:42 AM
oh god,
hot chiccies xxx waxing each other. yum.
Both parties must get wet as, with all that pussy in the air. And there must be some muff-diving action at least after giving your friend a good xxx wax surely? To ease the pain? There's no need to deny it babes, us guys understand. And approve.
re all this waxing etc. I thought it was just for us guys, like when we get together at strip clubs, so we can have little bets on what sort of muff-trim the stripper has.
Typical odds at the Horse are $2 on runway to $3 on bald beaver. There are other styles eg the little triangle, the diamond, etc but i forget the cute names for them. Anyone who can pick the triangle trim has pulled off a fantastic coup, and either must have x-ray vision or was at the Horse the night before. Cos the triangle is a bit less popular.
My opinion is, that, a trim is good, but u dont want to go too far. Some chicks can pull off the bald look, but, generally speaking a bit of a tuft at least is needed. Whatever u do, dont bother shaving/waxing if u get too much of a rash the day after or whatever. Thats not a good look. A bit of stubble a few days later is ok, but the red rash is not.
The thing with the trim is us guys like to see the lips hair-free. Its nice.
Above that, its not so important. But girls can still go wrong. The one thing not to do, is to wax/shave just the sides of the triangle, leaving a big, tall furry triangle above the shmoo. That just doesnt work.
If u are going to do the triangle, u have to do the top of it too, so its not too tall.
So, u either go for a thin runway, a small triangle clit-tuft, or, u just trim short but leave the full area intact. The diamond is hard to get just right, but can be nice.
Things to remember. Dont make the runway toooo thin, or too tall. Dont leave the triangle too big or too pointy at the bottom. Its not really meant to be an arrow head pointing at your clit, surrounded by bare skin. If you are with a guy who needs to be reminded of things like that, ditch him. The bottom of the triangle is more supposed to meld into the clit and the more pigmented skin of the lips.
In any case, the bottom line is that the length is more important than the shape. A mound of fur on top of your mound is never good. Keep the length short, and u cant really go wrong, and if u can clear the hair off your pussy lips, that is a nice bonus.
10:54 AM
oh yeah, re armpit and leg hair... well, very short petite girls can pull off a tuft of armpit hair. It is not a good look on tall girls though, full stop. If you are tall, us guys do not need armpit hair to know that you are old enough to be shagged rotten.
Leg hair, hmm, well, leg hair is better than leg stubble. But, leg hair generally is a bit of a turn off, sorry. If you are short, have milky smooth skin on your thighs etc, and some natural wispy ligh-coloured hair lower down your calves, that can be fine. Especially if it is balanced by a small natural tuft of armpit hair, then thats fine. Its like a nice, natural sexy look. But yeah, generally only works on short girls.
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