A Random description of my everyday life's crap....a look into the ppl in MissItalianCutie's life and their impact... There will be tears, there will be laughter, at times there mite even be snoring (god forbid!) but i promise u this space will not go wasted... if u dont come out any the wiser on something then i have failed....and im sorry :(

Monday, January 10, 2005

Wax on.....Wax off

What is with the female phenomena of 'hair removal'?
It seems in our quest to be more desireable to the opposite sex we have pushed the pain barriers to remove all unsightly body hair that would on the off chance put them off. But then to screw with our heads more, you get the men that prefer hair, either groomed or full naturale!
Is it really a necessity men??? Do we ask that u remove all hair from ur balls and ass crack???
There are the wave of 'metro sexual' men out there that do this by choice anyway, but you wont hear too many women complaining about how much hair their man has.

So we obsess about that little patch of hair like oh shit, he wont touch me if he sees that. But as we know men as a creature....if sex is on the menu its gonna take alot of hairs in their food to put them off!
I cant complain in this area, i am a self confessed hair removal addict. Not so much myself, i keep myself well groomed thank you, but i am now the waxer of most of my close friends, and even have gone so far as to be the sole care taker of DeliHunni's boy's (JetPilot) eyebrows.

But honestly, how important is it to them?
From all sources queried, it holds little importance at all....their mainly attracted to you as a whole and a little hair ain't going to deter them. They see it more as, it isnt their body so they have no right to say what you do with it.
A little prickle on the legs = added sensation, a single X wax instead of a double = extra padding, arm fuzz = to keep warm.
The only time that i believe they would do anything is when the perm can start to be plaited ladies! In that case i think even ourselves would want to check into the nearest beauty salon!

So should our hair removal be for them? Or is it now just a case of feeling more comfortable and feminine hairless? If its a case of this, then ladies relax, when you see a little hair let it go a few weeks before frantically trying to cease its existance....its only doing what its born to do!
Your not going to be any less attractive to yourself or anyone else if you have a little sandpaper growing on ur legs....

Now the mission is to get myself to believe what i just wrote and overcome my obsession.... But i think mine is more with the act, its theraputic to rid of something unwanted more than the fact i have a problem with hair on ppl....